Host profile: I am my own woman. Nobody objects to a woman being a good writer or sculptor or geneticist if at the same time she manages to be a good wife, good mother, good looking, good tempered, well groomed and unaggressive. What turns me on: The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man. Pure love is a willingness to give without a thought of receiving anything in return. What turns me off: Maybe I could have loved you better. Maybe you should have loved me more. Maybe our hearts were just next in line. Maybe everything breaks sometime.